So this is just to tell y’all that if you like a girl/boy, and you’re scared to tell them how you feel. trust me you are not the only one. Especially with how much drama can start from this. It is just so stupid. I hate it. And to those of you who are thinking about telling your crush you like him/her. if you think he/she has been showing signs they like you then good luck. If not and you are just doing it to get it off your chest don’t do it if they have had a gf/bf for a long time. And if they are really serious about the relationship. This can cause problems for the couple and you may think it is an opening; but if you are close to them, then they may hate you. be careful and wise. because I know someone who told her crush she liked him while he had a girlfriend and he lied to her, and broke her heart. she ended up hating him. they used to be close. it took over a year for her to trust him again. even just a little. she couldn’t tell anyone she liked them for over a year too.

when she did they liked her back. they dated after a month of getting to know each other. after 2 weeks she had to dump him. he’d never text her first. he never talked to her. he never hung out with her. they only saw eachother twice a week for a sport. he was heartbroken about it. he wasn’t happy and she tried to apologize. but when it came down to it she had to explain that it was because of him. he didn’t treat her like him girlfriend. or even best friend. yet he said I love you. she didn’t seem to even know who she was talking t0.

now she and him barely talk over text. if they do, she texts him first and 89% of the time he doesn’t reply.

please don’t end up like that. Now i am not saying to never tell them. just be mentally prepared for anything. heartbreak or failure of a relationship. be wise in who you date. try to get to know them some too even before you tell them. trust me.

please please please be careful and if you do tell someone and need advice comment on here and I will love to help you….

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