it has been a while since i have been here… i just wanted to say that i have been going through a lot. breakup and new/old crush. and it is a lot. and i don’t know what to do. but i do want to say that if you are someone going through this also. know it is happening for a reason. it will obviously be hard going through a breakup. mainly when you truly cared for them. and then it’s over, i guess what i am trying to say is. play it out. a breakup isn’t the end of the world. and neither is liking someone. the person i like is least available. my friend likes someone who is way older than her. but when she is older and life has finally started to calm down for her. she can make it an option to tell him if she still likes him. life needs to play itself out before anything. don’t worry about other people. you should worry about yourself. that would be why there is a thing called self care.

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So this is just to tell y’all that if you like a girl/boy, and you’re scared to tell them how you feel. trust me you are not the only one. Especially with how much drama can start from this. It is just so stupid. I hate it. And to those of you who are thinking about telling your crush you like him/her. if you think he/she has been showing signs they like you then good luck. If not and you are just doing it to get it off your chest don’t do it if they have had a gf/bf for a long time. And if they are really serious about the relationship. This can cause problems for the couple and you may think it is an opening; but if you are close to them, then they may hate you. be careful and wise. because I know someone who told her crush she liked him while he had a girlfriend and he lied to her, and broke her heart. she ended up hating him. they used to be close. it took over a year for her to trust him again. even just a little. she couldn’t tell anyone she liked them for over a year too.

when she did they liked her back. they dated after a month of getting to know each other. after 2 weeks she had to dump him. he’d never text her first. he never talked to her. he never hung out with her. they only saw eachother twice a week for a sport. he was heartbroken about it. he wasn’t happy and she tried to apologize. but when it came down to it she had to explain that it was because of him. he didn’t treat her like him girlfriend. or even best friend. yet he said I love you. she didn’t seem to even know who she was talking t0.

now she and him barely talk over text. if they do, she texts him first and 89% of the time he doesn’t reply.

please don’t end up like that. Now i am not saying to never tell them. just be mentally prepared for anything. heartbreak or failure of a relationship. be wise in who you date. try to get to know them some too even before you tell them. trust me.

please please please be careful and if you do tell someone and need advice comment on here and I will love to help you….

also please comment any other tips you would like to see.

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If you ever get that feeling where you like or love someone. Chances are, you probably do.

And that’s the tea and all I have to say…

In most of this I might put some experiences of my own (post 2 please check it out BTW if you haven’t already) because I feel it helps to let you all know that this can help, because this advice is from personal experience 99.9% of the time. Any other time it’s just what I feel either I should do more, or what other people may need to know.

Please check my posts, and I hope that some of this advice can help all of you 😉

For me confidence is actually something that I lack, and trying new things has always been hard for me. I get into my head and make myself believe that I can’t do it. But recently I was told something that was so simple but in a way helped some.

I told someone about how I have a hard time with confidence and they told me “the only way to get over that is to just do it.”

Something so little and simple, being told to me helped me so much, and talking to someone about it helps. It helps a lot more when they do something similar to you like in sports. They can help more because they have a better understanding also.

So my advice for now is to just talk to someone that might have been through the same thing and to tell someone you lack confidence, because they may have advice to help you too.

Having a hard time in school? Whether it’s because of studying or because of drama. Well here are some tips that might help a little…

Take a break and do something that makes you calm. Okay so, if you have a hobby like art, singing, or even a sport, etc. take a break and go do that if you can. If it’s a sport and you don’t have practice, and you can’t practice in the house or outside, maybe search up videos of it.

Watch a funny youtube video/ youtuber! If you like funny vines, try not to laugh videos, or even youtubers (like the Dolan Twins, James Charles, Liza Koshy, ETC.) sometimes that’s the best thing to brighten your day is a little bit of anothers happiness.

Talk to someone! Yes it may seem simple but it can help. One thing that can always have an impact on your day is when you are sad and keep your feelings in. Either talk to a family member, friend, teacher or anyone you trust for that matter.

Now these are just a few things to help, but you should get the idea.

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton